"People come into our life for a reason, a season or a lifetime..
When you figure out which on eit is, you will know
what to do for the
person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON.
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed.They
have to assist you
through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance
and support, to aid you
physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are
there for the reason
you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at the
incovenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the
relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes there up and force
you to take a stand. What we must realize is that
need has been met, our
desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you
sent up has been
answered. And now it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON.
It is because your turn has come to share, grow, or
learn. I bring you an
experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may
teach you something you
have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe It is real!
But, only for a season.
When people come into your life for a LIFETIME...
It is usually to teach you lifetime lessons; things
you must upon in order
to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to
accept the lesson,
love the person, and put what you have learned to use
in other
relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is
clairvoyant."
I got that as a forward today. That really struck me, inside. Because when I read the Season one, I immedietly thought of John. That's what he is to me, like a Season. Before I started going out with him, I didn't think I could feel anymore. I felt like my heart turned black, and I was no longer capable of feeling any type of feelings anymore. But now he's proved me wrong. I'm not saying I'm in love and shit, but he proved me wrong about my heart being dead. I guess I know now that I am capable of being in a relationship. But it's too bad he's only a "Season". Today on the phone, he said that he's going home for the summer. I mean, I guess I knew he would be, I was just hoping that for some small reason maybe he would be staying here for the summer. Oh well. So I only have a month left to be with him. That kinda sucks, to have that looming overhead of things. But I gotta just ignore that and have fun with him. We haven't actually talked about it though, about him leaving. I mean he's mentioned it, and I just don't say anything, and neither does he, we both pretend it won't change things which obviously it will, like in terms of never seeing him again. I wonder if he will bring it up ever. You know I almost started crying, thinking about it, but I didn't. Oh well. It was nice while it lasted.